“Between me and my sisters, we probably own at least 100 headscarves” once said my ultra-fashionista, Muslim, hipster friend from Portland, Oregon. “I used to wear it for my parents, but now I like it for its tradition and how it looks.” This girl Tara, a 1.5 generation Egyptian immigrant I knew for a few years, used to tell me she didn’t believe in God or the Q’uran (though she’d never tell her parents), but wore the hijab instead for a sense of Arab pride and cultural identity. She carried herself with her head held high, streaming with confidence. I’d see her walking around with her thick-rimmed glasses, maxi dress, and 80s cardigan, and be like “Damn, she can really rock that hijabi-hipster look!”
Tara came to Portland from Egypt when she was a little more than a year old, and while she and her family were really close to their Muslim faith and Egyptian nationality, she always seemed to identify mostly as an American. Her closest friends were practically all non-Muslim and she spoke English at home. This “cultural straddler” identity was showcased to the world by what she chose to wear—the rainbow hijab and the hipster glasses—the long skirt and the oxfords.
Hijab is the Arabic name for the aesthetic modesty required of Muslim women. It’s also what we call the headscarf that covers a woman’s hair and neck. American Muslims decide to wear the hijab for a wide variety of reasons, not just as a symbol of the oppression of women and Islamic patriarchy (as many Americans tend to believe). A woman who wears a hijab in a country like the United States that often looks upon Islam in a negative light, is showing that she is so devoted to her faith, heritage, cultural background, family, religious freedom, and/or femininity, that she is willing to proclaim it to the world, and be reminded of it every time she looks in a mirror. Anybody who chooses to wear a burqa, niqab, hijab or any other Islamic vestment of modesty is showing that brave enough to put herself out there to possibly be judged, condemned, made fun of, or discriminated against.
In addition to wearing the hijab, women often choose to wear loose and modest clothing that covers their arms, neck and legs. This can be frustrating for women because it is often uncomfortable to be so covered up (especially in the heat), and it also limits what kind of styles they can wear. Clothing companies have capitalized on solving this issue for hundreds of years, and recently, there has been an emergence of a new Hijabi-American style. Maxi dresses, baggy pants, leggings, pants with skirts, printed scarves, cool scarf ties, jumpers, glasses, accessories, grillz, long shirts, tunics, and special athletic clothing are some of the options for keeping cool, keeping warm, and diversifying outfits. Especially with where today’s fashion is going, there are more and more stylish options for hijabis. Online, there is a plethora of blogs where hijab-wearing women share their fashion tips and style ideas. Just Google it and you’ll see.
Stylish Muslim women, like my friend Tara, don’t let the hijab prevent them from using fashion as a creative outlet and a means of expression. I learned from her that the hijab is just a reminder that no matter how Americanized one becomes, a Muslim American that should never forget her roots and her religion. Tara used her hybrid sense of style to show the world that she was bothMuslim and hipster, both Arab and American.